三九養(yǎng)生堂記者 鄧肯·蓋伊 報(bào)道
精彩| 這??(zhe)就??(jiu)是??(shi)所??(suo)謂??(wei)的??(de)人??(ren)情??(qing)——人??(ren)與??(yu)人??(ren)通??(tong)過??(guo)贈?(zeng)送??(song)紅??(hong)包??(bao)、禮??(li)物??(wu)等??(deng)社??(she)會??(hui)資??(zi)源?(yuan)來?(lai)與??(yu)他??(ta)人??(ren)保?(bao)持??(chi)聯(lián)??(lian)系??(xi)??，通??(tong)過?(guo)日??(ri)常??(chang)往??(wang)來??(lai)維??(wei)持??(chi)良??(liang)好?(hao)關(guān)??(guan)系??(xi)??。??梁??(liang)漱??(shu)溟??(ming)先??(xian)生??(sheng)曾??(zeng)說??(shuo)：“中??(zhong)國??(guo)人??(ren)的??(de)生??(sheng)活??(huo)??，既??(ji)一??(yi)向??(xiang)倚??(yi)重??(zhong)于??(yu)家??(jia)庭??(ting)親??(qin)族??(zu)間??(jian)??，到??(dao)最??(zui)近??(jin)方??(fang)始??(shi)轉(zhuǎn)??(zhuan)趨?(qu)于??(yu)超?(chao)家??(jia)庭??(ting)的??(de)大??(da)集??(ji)團(tuán)??(tuan)；‘因??(yin)親??(qin)及??(ji)親??(qin)??，因??(yin)友??(you)及??(ji)友??(you)’其??(qi)路??(lu)仍??(reng)熟??(shu)??，所??(suo)以??(yi)遇??(yu)事??(shi)總??(zong)喜??(xi)托??(tuo)人??(ren)情??(qing)??。”人??(ren)情??(qing)往??(wang)來??(lai)是??(shi)社??(she)會??(hui)交?(jiao)往??(wang)的??(de)重??(zhong)要??(yao)形??(xing)式??(shi)??，本??(ben)身??(shen)無??(wu)可??(ke)厚??(hou)非??(fei)??。但??(dan)是??(shi)??，對??(dui)于??(yu)當(dāng)??(dang)下?(xia)的??(de)很??(hen)多??(duo)年??(nian)輕??(qing)人??(ren)來??(lai)說??(shuo)??，有?(you)時(shí)??(shi)人??(ren)情??(qing)負(fù)??(fu)擔(dān)??(dan)實(shí)??(shi)在??(zai)太??(tai)過??(guo)沉??(chen)重??(zhong)??，甚??(shen)至??(zhi)影??(ying)響??(xiang)到??(dao)了??(le)正??(zheng)常??(chang)生??(sheng)活??(huo)??。對??(dui)此??(ci)??，我??(wo)們??(men)應(yīng)??(ying)該??(gai)如??(ru)何?(he)破??(po)局??(ju)呢??(ne)？?? 一??(yi)個(gè)??(ge)成??(cheng)熟??(shu)的??(de)、擁??(yong)有??(you)獨(dú)?(du)立??(li)人??(ren)格??(ge)的??(de)人??(ren)??，應(yīng)??(ying)當(dāng)??(dang)懂??(dong)得??(de)從?(cong)實(shí)??(shi)際??(ji)出??(chu)發(fā)??(fa)??，建??(jian)立??(li)好??(hao)自??(zi)己??(ji)的??(de)邊??(bian)界??(jie)和??(he)原?(yuan)則??(ze)??，這?(zhe)樣??(yang)反??(fan)而??(er)會??(hui)獲??(huo)得??(de)別??(bie)人?(ren)更??(geng)多??(duo)的?(de)尊??(zun)重??(zhong)?。??當(dāng)??(dang)然??(ran)??，拒??(ju)絕??(jue)是??(shi)要??(yao)講??(jiang)方??(fang)法??(fa)的?(de)??，要?(yao)學(xué)??(xue)會??(hui)平??(ping)和??(he)地??(di)表??(biao)達(dá)??(da)??，真??(zhen)誠??(cheng)地??(di)說??(shuo)明??(ming)自?(zi)身??(shen)難??(nan)處??(chu)和??(he)相??(xiang)關(guān)??(guan)考?(kao)慮??(lv)?。同??(tong)時(shí)??(shi)??，要??(yao)就??(jiu)事??(shi)論??(lun)事??(shi)??，讓??(rang)對?(dui)方??(fang)感??(gan)受??(shou)到?(dao)??，自??(zi)己??(ji)只??(zhi)是??(shi)在??(zai)拒??(ju)絕??(jue)這??(zhe)件??(jian)事?(shi)??，而??(er)不??(bu)是??(shi)對??(dui)人??(ren)的??(de)拒??(ju)絕??(jue)和??(he)否??(fou)定??(ding)?。
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