三九養(yǎng)生堂記者 鄧肯·蓋伊 報(bào)道
精彩| 一??(yi)個(gè)??(ge)成??(cheng)熟??(shu)的??(de)、擁??(yong)有??(you)獨(dú)??(du)立??(li)人??(ren)格??(ge)的??(de)人??(ren)??，應(yīng)??(ying)當(dāng)??(dang)懂??(dong)得??(de)從??(cong)實(shí)??(shi)際??(ji)出??(chu)發(fā)??(fa)??，建??(jian)立??(li)好?(hao)自??(zi)己??(ji)的??(de)邊??(bian)界?(jie)和?(he)原??(yuan)則??(ze)??，這??(zhe)樣??(yang)反??(fan)而??(er)會(huì)??(hui)獲??(huo)得?(de)別??(bie)人??(ren)更??(geng)多??(duo)的??(de)尊??(zun)重??(zhong)??。??當(dāng)??(dang)然??(ran)??，拒??(ju)絕??(jue)是??(shi)要??(yao)講??(jiang)方??(fang)法??(fa)的?(de)??，要??(yao)學(xué)??(xue)會(huì)??(hui)平??(ping)和??(he)地?(di)表??(biao)達(dá)??(da)??，真??(zhen)誠??(cheng)地??(di)說??(shuo)明?(ming)自??(zi)身??(shen)難??(nan)處??(chu)和?(he)相??(xiang)關(guān)??(guan)考??(kao)慮??(lv)??。同??(tong)時(shí)??(shi)??，要??(yao)就??(jiu)事??(shi)論??(lun)事??(shi)??，讓??(rang)對(duì)??(dui)方??(fang)感??(gan)受??(shou)到?(dao)??，自??(zi)己??(ji)只??(zhi)是??(shi)在??(zai)拒??(ju)絕??(jue)這??(zhe)件??(jian)事??(shi)??，而??(er)不??(bu)是??(shi)對(duì)??(dui)人??(ren)的??(de)拒??(ju)絕??(jue)和??(he)否??(fou)定??(ding)???！ ⊥??(tong)時(shí)??(shi)??，這??(zhe)個(gè)??(ge)人??(ren)情??(qing)賬??(zhang)戶??(hu)不??(bu)僅??(jin)是??(shi)金??(jin)錢??(qian)上??(shang)的??(de)??，也??(ye)是??(shi)心??(xin)理??(li)上??(shang)的??(de)??。??人??(ren)情??(qing)不??(bu)要??(yao)攀??(pan)比??(bi)??，人?(ren)情??(qing)也??(ye)求??(qiu)不?(bu)來??(lai)??。不?(bu)管??(guan)是??(shi)親??(qin)友??(you)往??(wang)來??(lai)還??(hai)是??(shi)職?(zhi)場(chǎng)??(chang)人??(ren)情?(qing)??，該??(gai)拒?(ju)絕?(jue)時(shí)??(shi)要??(yao)學(xué)??(xue)會(huì)??(hui)拒??(ju)絕??(jue)??。對(duì)??(dui)于??(yu)很?(hen)多??(duo)人??(ren)情??(qing)來??(lai)說??(shuo)??，其?(qi)實(shí)??(shi)并??(bing)不??(bu)是??(shi)非??(fei)去??(qu)不??(bu)可??(ke)、非??(fei)送??(song)不??(bu)可??(ke)、非??(fei)請(qǐng)??(qing)不??(bu)可??(ke)、非??(fei)幫??(bang)不??(bu)可??(ke)??。在??(zai)接??(jie)到??(dao)一??(yi)份??(fen)邀??(yao)請(qǐng)??(qing)時(shí)??(shi)??，我??(wo)們??(men)首??(shou)先??(xian)要??(yao)對(duì)??(dui)這??(zhe)件??(jian)事??(shi)的??(de)重?(zhong)要??(yao)性??(xing)和??(he)必??(bi)要??(yao)性??(xing)進(jìn)??(jin)行??(xing)基??(ji)本??(ben)判??(pan)斷??(duan)??，綜??(zong)合??(he)自??(zi)己??(ji)的??(de)時(shí)??(shi)間??(jian)安??(an)排??(pai)、財(cái)??(cai)務(wù)??(wu)能?(neng)力??(li)作??(zuo)出??(chu)決?(jue)定??(ding)??，而??(er)不??(bu)是??(shi)因?(yin)為??(wei)“不??(bu)好??(hao)意??(yi)思?(si)拒??(ju)絕??(jue)”“怕??(pa)沒??(mei)面?(mian)子??(zi)”等?(deng)理??(li)由??(you)徒??(tu)受??(shou)其??(qi)累??(lei)??。為??(wei)人??(ren)情??(qing)交??(jiao)往??(wang)“減??(jian)負(fù)??(fu)”??，首??(shou)先??(xian)要??(yao)學(xué)??(xue)會(huì)??(hui)為?(wei)自??(zi)己??(ji)的??(de)心??(xin)態(tài)??(tai)“減??(jian)負(fù)??(fu)”??。要??(yao)知??(zhi)道??(dao)??，拒??(ju)絕??(jue)一??(yi)場(chǎng)??(chang)職??(zhi)場(chǎng)??(chang)聚??(ju)餐??(can)邀??(yao)請(qǐng)?(qing)??，并??(bing)不??(bu)會(huì)??(hui)讓??(rang)自??(zi)己??(ji)從??(cong)此??(ci)顯??(xian)得??(de)“不??(bu)合??(he)群??(qun)”；用??(yong)適??(shi)當(dāng)??(dang)理??(li)由??(you)婉??(wan)拒??(ju)一??(yi)位??(wei)普??(pu)通??(tong)朋??(peng)友??(you)的??(de)婚?(hun)宴??(yan)邀??(yao)約??(yue)??，相??(xiang)信??(xin)也??(ye)會(huì)??(hui)得??(de)到??(dao)對(duì)??(dui)方??(fang)的??(de)理??(li)解??(jie)??。
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