三九養(yǎng)生堂記者 鄧肯·蓋伊 報(bào)道
精彩| 這??(zhe)就??(jiu)是??(shi)所??(suo)謂??(wei)的??(de)人??(ren)情??(qing)——人??(ren)與?(yu)人?(ren)通??(tong)過?(guo)贈??(zeng)送??(song)紅??(hong)包??(bao)、禮??(li)物??(wu)等??(deng)社?(she)會??(hui)資??(zi)源??(yuan)來??(lai)與??(yu)他?(ta)人??(ren)保??(bao)持??(chi)聯(lián)??(lian)系??(xi)??，通??(tong)過??(guo)日??(ri)常??(chang)往??(wang)來??(lai)維??(wei)持??(chi)良??(liang)好??(hao)關(guān)??(guan)系?(xi)??。??梁??(liang)漱??(shu)溟??(ming)先??(xian)生??(sheng)曾??(zeng)說??(shuo)：“中??(zhong)國??(guo)人??(ren)的??(de)生??(sheng)活??(huo)??，既??(ji)一??(yi)向??(xiang)倚??(yi)重??(zhong)于??(yu)家??(jia)庭??(ting)親??(qin)族??(zu)間??(jian)??，到??(dao)最??(zui)近??(jin)方??(fang)始??(shi)轉(zhuǎn)??(zhuan)趨??(qu)于??(yu)超??(chao)家??(jia)庭??(ting)的??(de)大??(da)集??(ji)團(tuán)??(tuan)；‘因?(yin)親??(qin)及??(ji)親??(qin)??，因??(yin)友??(you)及??(ji)友??(you)’其??(qi)路??(lu)仍??(reng)熟??(shu)??，所祝(suo)以??(yi)遇??(yu)事??(shi)總??(zong)喜??(xi)托??(tuo)人??(ren)情??(qing)???！比??(ren)情??(qing)往??(wang)來??(lai)是??(shi)社??(she)會??(hui)交??(jiao)往??(wang)的??(de)重??(zhong)要??(yao)形??(xing)式??(shi)??，本??(ben)身??(shen)無??(wu)可??(ke)厚??(hou)非??(fei)??。但??(dan)是??(shi)??，對??(dui)于??(yu)當(dāng)??(dang)下??(xia)的?(de)很??(hen)多??(duo)年??(nian)輕??(qing)人??(ren)來?(lai)說??(shuo)??，有??(you)時(shí)??(shi)人??(ren)情?(qing)負(fù)??(fu)擔(dān)??(dan)實(shí)??(shi)在??(zai)太??(tai)過??(guo)沉??(chen)重??(zhong)??，甚??(shen)至?(zhi)影??(ying)響??(xiang)到??(dao)了??(le)正??(zheng)常??(chang)生??(sheng)活??(huo)??。對??(dui)此??(ci)??，我??(wo)們??(men)應(yīng)??(ying)該??(gai)如??(ru)何??(he)破??(po)局??(ju)呢?(ne)？?? 同??(tong)時(shí)??(shi)??，這??(zhe)個(gè)??(ge)人??(ren)情??(qing)賬??(zhang)戶??(hu)不??(bu)僅?(jin)是??(shi)金??(jin)錢??(qian)上??(shang)的??(de)??，也??(ye)是??(shi)心??(xin)理??(li)上??(shang)的??(de)??。??人??(ren)情??(qing)不??(bu)要??(yao)攀??(pan)比??(bi)??，人??(ren)情??(qing)也??(ye)求??(qiu)不?(bu)來??(lai)??。不??(bu)管??(guan)是??(shi)親??(qin)友??(you)往??(wang)來??(lai)還?(hai)是?(shi)職??(zhi)場??(chang)人??(ren)情??(qing)??，該??(gai)拒??(ju)絕?(jue)時(shí)??(shi)要??(yao)學(xué)??(xue)會??(hui)拒??(ju)絕??(jue)??。對??(dui)于??(yu)很??(hen)多??(duo)人??(ren)情??(qing)來??(lai)說??(shuo)??，其??(qi)實(shí)??(shi)并??(bing)不??(bu)是??(shi)非??(fei)去??(qu)不??(bu)可??(ke)、非??(fei)送??(song)不??(bu)可??(ke)、非?(fei)請??(qing)不?(bu)可??(ke)、非??(fei)幫??(bang)不??(bu)可??(ke)??。在??(zai)接?(jie)到??(dao)一??(yi)份??(fen)邀??(yao)請??(qing)時(shí)?(shi)??，我??(wo)們??(men)首??(shou)先??(xian)要??(yao)對??(dui)這?(zhe)件??(jian)事??(shi)的??(de)重??(zhong)要?(yao)性?(xing)和?(he)必??(bi)要??(yao)性??(xing)進(jìn)??(jin)行??(xing)基?(ji)本??(ben)判??(pan)斷??(duan)??，綜??(zong)合??(he)自??(zi)己??(ji)的??(de)時(shí)??(shi)間??(jian)安??(an)排??(pai)、財(cái)??(cai)務(wù)??(wu)能??(neng)力??(li)作??(zuo)出??(chu)決??(jue)定??(ding)??，而?(er)不??(bu)是??(shi)因??(yin)為??(wei)“不??(bu)好??(hao)意??(yi)思??(si)拒??(ju)絕??(jue)”“怕??(pa)沒??(mei)面??(mian)子??(zi)”等?(deng)理??(li)由??(you)徒??(tu)受??(shou)其??(qi)累??(lei)??。為??(wei)人??(ren)情??(qing)交??(jiao)往?(wang)“減??(jian)負(fù)??(fu)”??，首??(shou)先??(xian)要??(yao)學(xué)??(xue)會??(hui)為??(wei)自??(zi)己??(ji)的?(de)心??(xin)態(tài)??(tai)“減??(jian)負(fù)??(fu)”??。要??(yao)知??(zhi)道??(dao)??，拒??(ju)絕??(jue)一??(yi)場??(chang)職??(zhi)場??(chang)聚??(ju)餐?(can)邀??(yao)請??(qing)??，并??(bing)不??(bu)會??(hui)讓??(rang)自??(zi)己??(ji)從??(cong)此??(ci)顯??(xian)得??(de)“不??(bu)合?(he)群??(qun)”；用??(yong)適??(shi)當(dāng)??(dang)理?(li)由??(you)婉??(wan)拒??(ju)一??(yi)位??(wei)普?(pu)通??(tong)朋??(peng)友??(you)的??(de)婚??(hun)宴??(yan)邀??(yao)約??(yue)??，相?(xiang)信?(xin)也??(ye)會??(hui)得??(de)到??(dao)對??(dui)方??(fang)的??(de)理??(li)解??(jie)??。
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